Thereareseveralpossiblereasonsaccountableforthisphenomenon(中心句).Tobeginwith,familyingrowingnumbershasonlyonechild;therefore,parentsoftentimesfocusalltheirattentionsonthatchildandexertmuchpressureonhimorher(原因一).Moreover,numerousparentsintendtorealizetheirunfulfilleddreamsbylettingtheirchildrenlearnwhattheyfailedtolearnandapplyforthecollegebywhichtheyfailedtobeaccepted,becausetheyhavebecomericherandtheybelievethattheyhavethepowertomakewhattheywantedandwantcometruenow(原因二).Forinstance,myuncleusedtobeapoormanandhisdreamthatonedayhewouldbecomeaviolinistwasbrokenbecauseoflackofmoney.Buthemadeafortunebysellingcoals,andthenforcedhisson,myyoungerbrothertopracticeplayingviolin.Mybrotherwasahugefanofsports,butnowhehastoplayviolineverydayunwillinglyandofterquarrelswiththeirparents(举例:原来-然后-结局).
Tosumup,itisunreasonableforparentstocontroltheirchildren’slife(总结句).Inordertohelpthemgrowhappilyandhealthily,parentsaresupposedtocommunicatewiththeirkidsaboutwhattheyarereallyinterestedin(建议一,目的句型).Meanwhile,itisabouttimethatparentslettheirkidsmaketheirownchoices(建议二,“是时候”句型).Onlyinthesewayswillchildrengrowinapsychologicallyhappyenvironmentandrealizetheirowndreams.