Life is alive and there is no way to predict the future. Fortunately or unhappily, we must persevere until the end. Therefore, the quality of life depends on mentality. If you have a good mind, bad things will turn into good things; if you have a bad mind, good things will turn into bad things.
十一、被人理解是幸运的,但不被理解未必不幸。一个把自己的价值完全寄托于他人的理解上面的人往往并无价值。
It's lucky to be understood, but it's not necessarily unfortunate not to be understood. A person who places his value entirely on the understanding of others often has no value.
十二、有些东西,你可以计较,但别过甚,多了会磨损心性;有些痛苦,你可以沉浸,但别太久,长了会消减斗志,迷失你的方向。
Some things, you can care about, but not too much, more will wear the heart; some pain, you can immerse, but not too long, long will reduce the fighting spirit, lost your direction.
十三、人面对生活中的不如意,与其选择抱怨,不如选择释怀。生活中难免会有不如意,如果只会在抱怨里挣扎,人生注定是苦海无涯。
Faced with life's unsatisfactory, people choose to let go rather than complain. Life will inevitably be unsatisfactory, if only struggle in complaints, life is doomed to endless suffering.
十四、人生没有那么多的假设,现实是一个一个真实的耳光,打在你的脸上,喊疼毫无疑义,唯有一往无前。
There are not so many hypotheses in life. The reality is a real slap in the face. There is no doubt that it is painful to shout, but to go forward.
十五、既然无处可逃,不如喜悦。既然没有净土,不如静心。既然没有如愿,不如释然。
Since there is nowhere to escape, it's better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since there is no such thing as wishes, it is better to let go.
十六、与其埋怨世界,不如改变自己。管好自己的心,做好自己的事,比什么都强。人生无完美,曲折亦风景。
Instead of complaining about the world, change yourself. It's better to take care of your heart and do your own thing than anything else. Life is not perfect, twists and turns are scenery.
十七、人生的旅途中,你总有那么一段时间,需要自己走,需要自己扛,不要感觉害怕,不要感觉孤单,这只不过是成长支付的代价。
In the journey of life, you always have a period of time, you need to walk, you need to carry, you don't feel afraid, you don't feel lonely, it's just the cost of growth.
十八、人生是很累的,你现在不累,以后就会更累。人生是很苦的,你现在不苦,以后就会更苦。唯累过,方得闲。唯苦过,方知甜。
Life is very tired. If you are not tired now, you will be more tired later. Life is very bitter. If you don't suffer now, you will suffer more later. Only when you are tired can you have leisure. Only through bitterness can we know sweetness.
十九、人之所迷,因在局内,人之所悟,因在局外。人生充满变数,定力如何,直接影响到人生的走向。淡定看人生,宁静看自己。
Man is fascinated because he is in the situation, but what he understands is out of the situation. Life is full of variables. How determined we are will have a direct impact on the direction of life. Calm look at life, quiet look at themselves.
二十、一个人不可能改变世界,世界也不会因你而改变,所能做的,就是适应世界,不钻牛角尖,不要和别人攀比。你的生活,应该有你自己的精彩。
One cannot change the world, and the world will not change because of you. All one can do is to adapt to the world, not to compete with others. Your life, should have your own wonderful.