Long-distance relationship is not easy. I've been there, so I know exactly how it feels. When freshness become routine, when excitement become boringness, you will feel disgruntled and lonely. A text is not enough to boost your mood; a phone-call can’t help you with your computer problems. You need a hug, a shoulder, a hand, in other words, you need him by your side.
Difficult as it is, it doesn't mean long-distance relationship is impossible. Here are some tips that I draw from my experience:
1. Stop lying on your former easy-help hand. Learn to handle problems that you can’t handle before, like fixing up your computer.
2. Maybe you're a lone wolf, but now you have to become a social animal, because you need friends. But remember to keep distance with the opposite sex.
3. Find a goal that both you and your boyfriends are interested in, then fight for it. This will create a common topic, so that you are connected.
Long-distance relationship is a tough test but also a benefit. After you walk through this, you'll find you become a strong, independent and well-connected person.
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There is an old saying Distance breeds beauty. Some people apply this quote as the distance relationship. However, this only refers that personal space is important and indispensable within a relationship. Living apart for a long time, as far as I am concerned, will eventually jeopardize your relationship with your partner.
Firstly, in my opinion, love is about sharing. Long-distance relationship makes two people who in love live in a different life. And gradually, the partners will lose their common topics in life, which does great damage to the relationship. Secondly, geographically, distance is a huge problem. It is unpractical for one to give an instant care to his or her partner when he or she is in long distance relationship. Especially when you are ill, lack of company makes you feel even worse. And in the last, emotionally, long-distance relationship is a big challenge to each other’s belief. In other words, both two people in a relationship have to be confident enough about the future.
In a word, love is like a joint venture company. Only if two members are working for the same target, there comes a happy ending.
