假如你在一个人最困难的时候帮了他一次,那么你可能就会被他当作恩人,可是如果你经常性地帮他,偶尔一次不帮他,那么你可能就会被他当作仇人,是啊,如果一个人一直都习惯性地得到,那么他可能就会忘记感恩两个字怎么写,这便是真实的人性吧!
If you are in one of the most difficult time to help him once, then you might be him as a benefactor, but if you regularly to help him, not to help him at a time, occasionally you might have been him as an enemy, yes, if a person always habitually, then he might forget Thanksgiving two word how to write, this is the real human nature!
适当隐藏自己的委屈难过,不要随随便便地就跟找别人倾诉,那些没有经历过你的故事的人,只会嗤之以鼻,你要明白其实人与人之间的悲伤是不能共情的,或许你满腹委屈的倾诉,在别人眼里看来不过就是一个八卦的谈资罢了。
Appropriate hide his sad injustice, don't just like others, find those who without the experience of your story, would only, you need to understand that in fact, sad can't empathy, between people maybe you full of grievances, in others' eyes it seems just a gossip to talk about it.
当你人生得意时,围在你身边的都是笑脸附和,多的是一些说甜言蜜语的所谓的"朋友",可是当你处在人生低谷时,你就会看到贬低,多得是那些过河拆桥的人,所以啊!人只有在最困难的时候才能看清一些东西!
When you are proud of your life, all around you are smiling faces to go along with it, and there are many so-called "friends" who say sweet words, but when you are in the low ebb of your life, you will see the put-down, and there are many people who burn Bridges across the river, so ah! Only in the most difficult time to see something clearly!
对于别人来说那些可以轻易得到的,他们都不会懂得好好珍惜,只有那些得之不易的,他们才会加倍珍惜,那种想要但是一直都得不到的,他们才会至死不渝,人心向来如此吧!
For others that can be easily obtained, they will not know how to cherish, only those who won't easily, they will cherish more, the kind of want but have been unable to get, they will die until undying, the heart has always been so!
人生得意时,不要总是一味地认为自己在别人心目中有多么的重要,哪一天当你一无所有的时候,其实你在别人心里就什么都不是了!
When you are happy in life, don't always blindly think how important they are in the minds of others, which day when you have nothing, in fact, you are nothing in the hearts of others!
或许在生活中,我们每个人的身边总是会有那么一些人,他们需要你的时候百般殷勤,而不需要你的时候就爱答不理,人性向来如此吧!
Perhaps in life, there will always be some people around each of us, when they need you in every possible way, and do not need you on the indifferent, human nature has always been so!
现在这个世界还真是讽刺啊,有时候那些说了真话的人,到头来却落得个不好的下场,而那些趋炎附势,总是违心说假话的人,最后却混得风生水起。
The irony of the world today is that sometimes those who tell the truth end up in a bad way, while those who follow the snob and always tell lies against their will end up in the hot water.
事实证明人和人之间不管关系如何,都要保持适当的距离,就算关系再怎么好,也不要走得太近了,物极必反,否则最后就可能会渐行渐远!
Facts have proved that no matter how the relationship between people, it is necessary to keep a proper distance, even if the relationship is no matter how good, do not get too close, the extreme things will be reversed, otherwise it may eventually drift apart!