Someofthethingsextraordinarypeopledoeveryday:
Neverhesitatetohelpsomeone.It'sfairlysimplebutitgoesalongway.
Don'tbenon-committalandsaysomethingvaguelike,“CanIhelpyou?”becausetheymightjustsay,“No,I'mgood.”Thekeyistonotsoundpatronizing.Bespecific.“Ihadthesameproblemwiththiscoffeemachineinthemorning.IthinkIhavefiguredawaytomakeitwork.”
不要害怕承诺并说一些模糊的话,“需要我的帮忙吗?”因为别人可能以为你只是说说,“不,我很好。”并要注意不要以恩人自居。要具体一点.”早晨我也碰到这个咖啡机出现过同样的问题。我觉得我想到了一个办法能把它修好。”
Offerinawaythatfeelsmutuallybeneficial.
hesitatevi.犹豫,踌躇;不愿;支吾;停顿
例句:
Donothesitatetolaughatanythingyoufindamusing.
Shedidn'thesitatetotellintrusivephotographersto"naffoff".
Theydon'thesitatetoopenfirewhenconfrontedbypolice.