Nowadays,there’sanincreasingnumberofhouseholdinChinathathasanonlyonechild.MostofparentsLoveandcareforchildrensomuchthatchildrenhaslesschancestodealwithproblemsbythemselves.Consequently,childrengetusedtodependingontheirparentsineverythingandlackofabilitytosolveproblemsindependently,whichisbadfortheirgrowing.
Therearesomeeffectivewaysforparentstohelptheirchildrenbeindependent.Tostartwith,parentsshouldgivetheirchildrenmorechancestoexperiencetheworldandlifearoundthem.Thustheirchildrencanenhancethecapabilitytoovercomethedifficultiesandhandleproblemsindependently.Inaddition,parentsshouldofferenoughassistancewhentheirchildrenneedsomeinstructionsandadvices.Inthisway,theydependontheirparentsinarightwayandcansolveproblemsindependentlywhentheyfacethesameonenexttime.Lastbutnotleast,parentsshouldallowtheirchildrentomakedecisionsindependently.Childrenwouldimprovetheabilitytodealwiththeproblemstheyareconfrontedwithintheirlife.
Fromtheabovediscussion,Istronglybelievethatparentshouldhelptheirchildrenbeindependentbyinstructingtheminaproperwayratherthanplanningandconsideringeverythingforthem.It’schildrenwhodecidetheirfutureandfate,soitwouldbebeneficialforthemtoliveindependentlywithsomeproperinstructionsoftheirparents.
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