Parents’roleintheirchildren’sgrowth
Asisprescribedinthepicture,thegirltoldhermother,“Goodnewsmom!Iwasacceptedtothecollegeofyourchoice.”Wecaninferthatthemomchoosescollegeforherchild,butshouldtheparentsmakesuchdecisionfortheirchildren?AsfarasIconcerned,parentscangiveadvicefortheirchildreninsteadofmakingdecisionsforthem.
Firstly,parentsalwayswanttogivetheirchildrenthebest,however,theycannotcompletelyunderstandtheirchildren’sinterestandcan’tsurewhatthemostsuitableistotheirchildren.Theyjustgivetheirchildrenwhattheyconsiderthebest,regardlessofwhattheirchildrenwantandwhattheylike.Sothebestwaytoshowyourloveistorespectchildren’schoice.Secondly,thechildrenshouldresponsiblefortheirownlife.Parentscancompanytheirchildrendecadesofyears,buttheycannotcompanytheirchildren’swholelife.Parentscangivetheirchildrenadvice,butteachtheirchildrentobeindependentismoreimportantintheirgrowth.
Tosumup,parentscangivetheirchildrenadvice,buttheyshouldrespecttheirchildren’schoice.Afterall,childrenwillgrowuponeday,andtheymustlearnhowtoliveindependentandberesponsiblefortheirownlife.