Some people think that family life and parents have a great influence on children's development, while others think that external influence plays a more important role in children's life. Discuss these two views and give their own views. Parents and school education are two necessary stages in children's development process (however, which is more important? Some people think that children's personality is basically formed in childhood, and family life and early experience have a more profound impact on children, that is, if children grow up in a happy and harmonious family environment, they will Become more confident and friendly.
In contrast, children living in unhappy divorced or violent families are less happy at this age. They may become introverted and reluctant to make friends with others on campus. Those children who are spoiled in their youth may be self-centered and tend to be self-centered.
Because of the importance of education, many parents are focusing on educating their children to help them learn how to deal with their own behavior and what role they should play in the world. On the other hand, school education is definitely an external influence, except for transmission Besides knowledge, it has an essential impact on children. School is the perfect place to help children develop good behavior and social skills.
Children can get a lot of happiness from playing with people of the same age. They share ideas and help each other, which is totally different from s. Introverted children can also be transformed into extroverts and even attractive children.
The experience of children leaving their parents is also impressive because they can judge for themselves and decide whether they should listen to their wishes. For example, no matter what the parents think, they will choose their favorite major instead of the conclusion. What I want to say is that family life is very important for children's development, but external experience is also essential.
These experiences can be used as a kind of praise for their family life.
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有人认为家庭生活和父母对孩子的发展有很大的影响，也有人认为外在的影响在孩子的生活中起着更重要的作用。讨论这两种观点并给出自己的看法父母和学校教育是儿童发展过程中两个必要的阶段（然而，哪一个更重要有人认为，儿童的个性基本上是在童年时期形成的，家庭生活和早期经历对儿童的影响更为深刻，也就是说，如果儿童在幸福和谐的家庭环境中成长，他们会变得更加自信和友善。相比之下，生活在不幸离异或暴力家庭中的孩子，在这个年龄段获得的幸福会更少。
他们可能会变得内向，不愿意在校园里与他人交朋友。那些在年轻时被宠坏的孩子可能会以自我为中心，倾向于自我中心因为教育的重要性而伤害他人，所以很多家长都把心思放在教育孩子上，帮助他们学会如何对待自己的行为以及在世界上扮演什么样的角色；另一方面，学校教育绝对是一种外在的影响，它除了传递知识外，对孩子有着本质的影响，学校是帮助孩子养成良好行为和培养社会技能的完美场所，孩子们可以从与他们年龄相同的人玩耍中获得很多快乐，他们分享想法，互相帮助，这与成年人完全不同。内向的孩子也可以转变成外向的，甚至有魅力的孩子，孩子离开父母时的经历也给人留下深刻的印象，因为他们能够自己判断，决定是否应该听从自己的心意。
例如，不管父母怎么看，他们都会选择自己喜欢的专业，而不是结论，我想说的是，家庭生活对孩子的发展非常重要，但是外在的经验也是必不可少的，这些经验可以作为对他们家庭生活的一种赞美。
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