All the things you have cried about, how many years later, you will laugh and say, and then scold yourself: at first really silly, in fact, there are not so many troubles in life, time will solve everything, love yourself.
十一、在这个世界上，没有人真正可以对另一个人的伤痛感同身受。你万箭穿心，你痛不欲生，也仅仅是你一个人的事，别人也许会同情，也许会嗟叹，但永远不会清楚你伤口究竟溃烂到何种境地。
In this world, no one can really feel the pain of another person. You have a thousand arrows piercing your heart. You are in great pain. It's just your own business. Others may sympathize with you or sigh, but you never know exactly where your wound is festering.
十二、我们最大的悲哀，是迷茫地走在路上，看不到前面的希望；我们最坏的习惯，是苟安于当下生活，不知道明天的方向。
Our greatest sorrow is to walk in confusion without seeing the hope ahead; our worst habit is to live in the present without knowing the direction of tomorrow.
十三、不必太纠结于当下，也不必太忧虑未来，当你经历过一些事情的时候，眼前的风景已经和从前不一样了。
Don't be too obsessed with the present or worry about the future. When you experience something, the scenery is different from the past.
十四、人生本来就没有相欠，别人对你付出，是因为别人喜欢，你对别人付出，是因为自己甘愿。情出自愿，事过无悔。
Life is not owed, others pay you, because others like, you pay others, because you are willing to. Voluntary feelings, no regrets.
十五、人生就像不停在用的铅笔，开始很尖，但慢慢的就磨的圆滑了。不过，太过圆滑了，就差不多又该挨削了。
Life is like a pencil that keeps on using. It starts sharp, but slowly rubs smoothly. But it's too smooth, and it's almost time to be cut again.
十六、人生，有多少计较，就有多少痛苦；有多少宽容，就有多少欢乐。计较的心如同口袋，宽容的心犹如漏斗。复杂的心爱计较，简单的心易快乐。
Life, how much to care about, how much pain; how much tolerance, how much joy. A calculating heart is like a pocket, and a tolerant heart is like a funnel. Complicated love calculation, simple heart easy to be happy.
十七、心态不好，人生易老。有什么样的心，你就是什么样的人。人，不怕容颜沧桑，就怕心的苍老。
Mentality is not good, life is easy to grow old. What kind of heart, you are what kind of person. People are not afraid of vicissitudes of life, they are afraid of the old heart.
十八、金钱再多也无法阻止死亡，长相再美也不能讨好阎王，声名再大也要经过生死。因此人生不要太贪，不要活得太累。
No amount of money can stop death, no amount of beauty can please the King of Yan, and no amount of fame can go through life and death. So don't be too greedy, don't live too tired.
十九、选择任何一种生活方式，都有得有失。所以，不用羡慕什么，也不用抱怨什么。你所能做的，只是保持身体和内心的平衡。
There are gains and losses in choosing any way of life. So don't envy or complain. All you can do is keep your body and mind in balance.
二十、人生苦短，世事无常。何必事事那么在乎，更不必处处那么计较。人这一辈子，不过百年，没必要过分苛求什么，苛求太多，烦恼就多，奢望太多，痛苦更甚。
Life is short and things are changeable. Why do you care so much about everything, not to mention everywhere? In one's lifetime, however, there is no need to be excessively demanding, demanding too much, worrying too much, expecting too much, and suffering even more.
