有句话说，"暗恋是一个人的士兵"。悄悄地喜欢一个人是一件很快乐的事，但大多数时候是很折磨人的。
There is a saying, "secret love is a man's soldier". Quietly like a person is a very happy thing, but most of the time it is very painful.
然而，当你自己觉得你不再是中心的时候，它就会增长。
However, when you feel that you are no longer the center, it will grow.
很多人认为，女人太强势是不好的，但如果她不学会坚强，不学会独立，谁会在女人最脆弱的时候向她伸出援手呢？
Many people think it's bad for a woman to be too strong, but if she doesn't learn to be strong and independent, who will lend a helping hand to a woman when she is most vulnerable?
"变色龙效应 "告诉你，如果对方喜欢你，你就不需要对他好。
The chameleon effect tells you that if the other person likes you, you don't need to be nice to him.
他的婚姻不幸福，所以女人该强硬的时候就应该强硬。如果你发现一个男人在你的婚姻中做错了什么，是时候说些什么了。
His marriage is unhappy, so women should be tough when they should be tough. If you find out what a man did wrong in your marriage, it's time to say something.
一旦你被拒绝了三次，就不要再尝试了，这是没结果的。
Once you've been rejected three times, don't try again. It's fruitless.
与其让对方疲于奔命，不如早点分开，这样我们就可以不受对方的影响，给对方一个自由空间。
Instead of making each other tired, it's better to leave early, so that we can not be affected by each other and give each other a free space.
许多人总是说，他们越是试图为对方付出，越是紧紧抓住对方，就越早意识到自己正在失去对方。
Many people always say that the more they try to pay for each other and hold on to each other, the sooner they realize that they are losing each other.
