那些保持适应性情绪控制状态的人，把逆境看作是暂时性的，相信困难应该会过去的。在一项危机中，他们很好地调整自己，坚信控制来源于激励的行动而非控制反应。他们不会受到紧张或痛苦情绪的惊吓;他们采取有效的应对策略，例如取得亲朋的支持和自我的述说。研究表明那些拥有高情商的人处理创伤性(traumatic)事件时很少会有负面心理问题。
Thosewhomaintainanadaptivestateofemotionalcontrolregardadversityastemporaryandhavethebeliefthat“Thisshallpass.”Inacrisis,theywelladjustthemselvesandfirmlybelievethatthecontrolcomesfrominspiredactionratherthancontrollingreaction.Theyarenotterrifiedbyintenseorpainfulemotions;theyemployeffectivecopingstrategies,suchasobtainingsupportfromrelativesandfriends,andself-talk.Thestudyindicatesthatindividualswithahighemotionalintelligencehandletraumaticeventswithrarenegativepsychologicalproblems.
他们很好地调整自己theywelladjustthemselves
受到紧张或痛苦情绪的惊吓terrifiedbyintenseorpainfulemotions
采取有效的应对策略employ/adopteffectivecopingstrategies
