很多中国父母经常用给孩子零花钱的方式来激励孩子好好学习,你赞同这种做法吗?
Personally,Idon’tbelievethatgivingchildrenpocketmoneyisaverygoodidea.Inmyopinion,doingsoonlyencourageschildrentothinkthatthingsinlifearefree.Ashumans,weonlyvaluethosethingsthatcostussomethingtoobtain.
WhenIwasachild,myparentsnevergaveusanypocketmoney(or“allowance”aswecallitinAmerica).Theymadeusworktoearnanymoneywehad.Theywantedustoknowthatmoneyisvaluable,andthathardworkisevenmorevaluable.Theywantedustolearntomakewisechoiceswithourmoney,andtheyknewwewouldbemorecarefulwithourmoneyifweearneditourselves.Finally,theywantedustounderstandthatworkandmoneyarerelated:youcannothaveonewithouttheother.
Ithinktherearetwothingsparentsneedtodotohelptheirchildrenunderstandthevalueofmoney.First,theyshouldmaketheirchildrenearntheirspendingmoney,whichwillmakethechildrenconsiderthemoneyprecious.Second,theyshouldnotalwaysstoptheirchildrenfromdoingfoolishthingswiththeirmoney.Makingsomemistakeswillteachthechildrentobewise.
allowance[ə’lauəns]n.津贴,零用钱,允许,限额,折扣,允差,考虑
valuable[’væljuəbl]adj.贵重的,有价值的
related[ri’leitid]adj.相关的,有亲属关系的
understand[.ʌndə’stænd]vt.理解,懂,听说,获悉,将...理解为,认为
precious[’preʃəs]adj.宝贵的,珍贵的,矫揉造作的