the key slot was narrow,benjamin just wantted to insert it.
ellen and I were happy to allow benjamin tobang the key near the key slot
any chinese staff nearby would come over to watch benjamin and,noting his lack of initial success,attempt to assist
two different ways of learning
chinese style
ba zhe shou jiao----"teaching by holding his hand“
show him what to do
western style
young westerners making their boldest departures frist and then gradually mastering the tradition
parents always provide their children with acess to explore freely.such abundant freedom allows children to develop in an allround way.
summarize
we can gathwr from the Chinese and American extremes,a superior way to approach education,striking a better balance beteen the pales of creativity and basic skills